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Help with weaning from paci

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1:50 pm
February 18, 2010


jgentner

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posts 14

This goes for both nighttime sleeping and naps. My son is 13 months old and uses a pacifier to fall asleep. The pacifiers only stay in his crib (or pack n play if traveling). When is the best age to wean him from the paicifier? And how should I do it? I am torn because I feel it isn't a big deal now to let him use it for sleeping, but I know the longer I wait the harder it might to break him from this habit. Please help.

1:53 pm
February 24, 2010


Kimberly

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posts 100

Hi there,

I think deciding when to wean from the pacifier is mostly a personal choice. It sounds like if your son is only using during sleep and not walking around during the day with it, then it might be okay to continue with it a bit longer. As long as it's not the case where if the pacifer falls out, he wakes up and won't go back to sleep unless you hand it back to him. You might give him until say his 2nd birthday and then start talking with him about using it less or set up a sticker chart for a reward for each night he gives it up. You might be surprised, he may just wean himself from it.

For my son, he used it during the day and then I worked on getting him down to just using it at night and then finally I set a date (his birthday) when the pacifer finally had to go away.

Kimberly

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3:01 am
March 4, 2010


Miriam

Australia

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posts 22

I've had friends who have used pacifiers with no problems at all with their kids so I guess if there's no problems with it's use, what Kimberly suggested sounds good to me. My 2 kids (23 months and 4 months) both had colic and so really benefited from using a pacifier for the first 3 months but after that time they both weren't great sleepers so I took them off it (first child at 10 months, once I realised what was going on, and second child at 4 months). You have to be determined though as in the middle of the night when they're crying it's the easiest thing in the world just to plug it in and go back to bed. For me I went cold turkey and put the pacifiers out of sight and easy access so I wasn't tempted just to use them for ease. As with all things to do with children, go with your gut instinct of what you think needs to happen with the pacifier. Good luck!

3:26 pm
March 13, 2010


prespark

Member

posts 5

What I did with my son who was two at the time was this: I took a pair of scissors and cut the soother, i then presented it to him and said "oh my, its broken! I am sorry you can't use it any more".  I gave it to him to put in his mouth and it just wasn't the same so he gave it back to me and we threw it out together.  It worked for me.  He did ask for it after that but I just reminded him it was broken.


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