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27 months old and wakes 2-3 times a night

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4:14 pm
March 25, 2010


Marguerite

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My son is 27 months old and has not slept though the nights since he was an infant. I admit that we have rocked him to sleep then put him in his crib asleep…everything that you are not supposed to do. He is a great napper and sleeps 1-2.5 hours each day. Getting him to sleep at night isn’t the major problem (we have a great routine and have stopped the rocking…to bed at 8:30 and up at 7:00am), it is his night waking. He is a crazy active sleeper, so we graduated him to a full size bed at 24 months…we had thought he was waking himself up by hitting the side of the crib, and had hoped the new bed would give him plenty of room to flip & flop. While it gives him the room he needs, it does not stop waking up. There are 3 major problems with his waking…1. Now when he wakes up he gets out of bed and comes into our room (or wherever we are depending on the hour); 2. When he isn’t wandering the house he will sit up in his bed and SCREAM & cry until his daddy comes in to console him and 3. His daddy is the only one who can put him back to sleep (I put him to bed without a problem, but he freaks out when I come in the middle of the night and will scream until my husband comes in.). My husband does often rock him back to sleep after these wakings because he is so upset. On a typical night he wakes up 2-3 times, and often wakes his sisters (5 month old twins who blissfully sleep through the night!)…I am terrified his sleep problems are going to start effecting them.

At this point, we don’t know what to do. We have tried just about everything. Any suggestions? ANYTHING would be appreciated.

Thank you!

 

5:20 pm
March 25, 2010


Kimberly

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Post edited 11:22 pm – March 25, 2010 by Kimberly


Hi Marguerite,

For a toddler this age, he should be able to sleep through the night provided there are no underlying medical issues. The first step would be to start setting some limits with him. From what you've said he has the capacity and the ability to fall asleep on his own with no problems, so the nighttime wakings are really about him pushing to get what he wants in order to go back to sleep. I highly recommend you read over this post Nicole wrote about setting limits for toddlers and then work on some ideas with your husband for how you want to implement these.Here is the post: http://www.babysleepsite.com/t…..g-toddler/  I would also work with him on letting him know that the screaming is not okay at night and to try to help him understand how he might wake up his sisters by doing that.

You might also check out this behavioral modification night light that I've heard other parents have good results with: http://www.goodnitelite.com/index.php It has two settings, a moon for nighttime sleep and then a sun that comes on at a time you set and it helps to teach young kids that moon means sleep and sun means time to get up.

Just as he learned to fall asleep on his own, he can also learn how to go back to sleep when he wakes up at night but he just needs some guidance and reassurance from you both. You can also consider contacting Nicole for a custom solution to fit your needs or some ideas to help reduce his nighttime anxiety which leads to the screaming and high level of upset.

Kimberly

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