Post edited 11:22 pm – March 25, 2010 by Kimberly
Hi Marguerite,
For a toddler this age, he should be able to sleep through the night provided there are no underlying medical issues. The first step would be to start setting some limits with him. From what you've said he has the capacity and the ability to fall asleep on his own with no problems, so the nighttime wakings are really about him pushing to get what he wants in order to go back to sleep. I highly recommend you read over this post Nicole wrote about setting limits for toddlers and then work on some ideas with your husband for how you want to implement these.Here is the post: http://www.babysleepsite.com/t…..g-toddler/ I would also work with him on letting him know that the screaming is not okay at night and to try to help him understand how he might wake up his sisters by doing that.
You might also check out this behavioral modification night light that I've heard other parents have good results with: http://www.goodnitelite.com/index.php It has two settings, a moon for nighttime sleep and then a sun that comes on at a time you set and it helps to teach young kids that moon means sleep and sun means time to get up.
Just as he learned to fall asleep on his own, he can also learn how to go back to sleep when he wakes up at night but he just needs some guidance and reassurance from you both. You can also consider contacting Nicole for a custom solution to fit your needs or some ideas to help reduce his nighttime anxiety which leads to the screaming and high level of upset.