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What to do when they can climb out of the crib?

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4:31 pm
June 16, 2011


Stephanie

Texas

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I'm new to the site and i currently have a 22 month old that i lay down with on the floor in her room to get to sleep and then when she wakes in the middle of the night i go in and end up co-sleeping with her in our guest bedroom. At the beginning of the year i messed up my back (could no longer sit in the rocking chair while she went to sleep) and had to sleep train her (which wasn't nearly as bad as i thought considering she's always had sleep problems). Well she started putting herself to sleep and sleeping thru the night for over 3 months, until at the end of April she threw up two nights in a row at bed time and became afraid of her crib. Now i don't know what to do with sleep training her since she has recently become adept at climb out of the crib. I can literally turn around and she's horizontal on the corner of the crib. I don't know whether i should try a crib tent or make the switch to a toddler bed since i'm already co-sleeping with her now. Any pointers would greatly be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Stephanie

9:44 pm
June 16, 2011


Debbye

lake arrowhead, CA

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posts 91

Hi Stephanie,

While your daughter is a little on the young side, you can try the transition to a "big bed" and see how it goes. The main challenge with a big bed is the imaginary boundaries. For some younger toddlers, they simply are not developmentally ready, and some don’t feel as secure without the comfort of the enclosure.

For a smoother transition, involve her in purchasing the bed (or if you already have the bed, have her help pick out new sheets or blankets) such that she is a part of this big transition. Mak e aplan to get her sleeping on her own, and Maybe even a sticker chart could help? Keep in mind, that at first things may not go smoothly, but try to be consistent and give it 1-2 weeks, depending on her personality. Here are a couple of links that you may find helpful in creating a strategy:

http://www.babysleepsite.com/t…..g-toddler/

 

http://www.babysleepsite.com/t…..hart-tips/

 

Good luck!!!

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I would recommend that you work to transition her from needing the
pacifier to go to sleep and to stay asleep. Her ability to learn to go to sleep
on her own and to go back to sleep at night when she wakes will really only
happen once she’s no longer dependent on the pacifier to go to sleep.

 

There are different methods
of sleep training that you can use to help teach her this including no cry and
limited crying methods.

5:06 pm
June 17, 2011


Stephanie

Texas

New Member

posts 2

Thanks for the suggestions Debbye.

I did forget to mention that when she wakes in the middle of the night she has started asking for milk, which of course i have given in small amounts in a sippy cup (she was cutting her I-teeth very recently and i figured the cold milk helped her teething pain, which she has always been sensitive to teething). Well i believe the sippy cup is now a sleep association for her. I have also been giving her a sippy cup of cold water during bedtime. I'm assuming that before I start a sleep training plan (of me getting her to soothe herself to sleep) that I need to get rid of the sippy cup at bedtime and during the night. Hence get rid of one sleep association before tackling her other sleep association, which is ME. Boy, they are quick to pick up things and take hold of them.  

I'm also assuming that since at the beginning of the year when i basically told her that i could no longer sit in the rocking chair and hold her to sleep (because it hurt my back and i proceeded to cuddle her in the chair instead and then tell her nite nite and place her in her crib, which she would then cry for around 10 minutes and then fall asleep and sleep thru the night) that she is not too terribly strong willed.

Here lately she has been sleeping better in between wakings. At the very beginning when i would pick her up and co-sleep with her her sleep in between wakings was agitated and when she would wake up she would wake up screaming and fussy. Hence i didn't know if she could have been having nightmares in there too.

Thanks for listening and any insight you may have.

Stephanie

9:06 pm
June 28, 2011


Debbye

lake arrowhead, CA

Admin

posts 91

Hi again Stephanie!

It has been a couple of weeks, and I hope things are going well??!! Did you read the sticker chart article?

Yes, you are right, the sippy cup is another sleep association that you will need to remove if you are going to teach her to fall asleep and back to sleep on her own. And yes, you can remove the sippy cup first and then work on your "sleep plan," or you can do it all at once. Some families begin offering water in the cup, and find that water is just not worth the child waking up for!

I am hoping that she will learn quickly and everything goes well! Unfortunatly, there is no way of me knowing if she was having nightmares or was just angry and awake, but I do hope that has subsided.

Good luck!


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