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Weaning Baby from car seat

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7:43 pm
December 16, 2010


alj

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Post edited 7:44 pm – December 16, 2010 by alj
Post edited 7:44 pm – December 16, 2010 by alj


My daughter is almost 6 mos old.   She has been sleeping through the night since she was 2 1/2 months old.  During the day she takes two naps – one at 9:30ish and one at 1:30ish.  The naps can range from 1-2 hrs.  She usually will go to sleep for the night around 7:30 pm and will wake up around 6:30 am.  Sounds like we don't have a problem, right?  Well she has been sleeping in her car seat since she was 6 weeks old.  We have tried numerous times to try to wean her from it, but it hasn't worked.  Admittedly, we probably have been inconsistent because eventually we just need sleep and we know that putting her in the car seat will work.  She does take her naps at daycare in a crib, but not at home.  Does anyone have any tips on the best way to wean her from the car seat?  Has anyone else had a similar problem?  Since she is sleeping so well in it, I admit that we haven't been the most motivated to get her out of it, but now that she is more mobile, we know that we should!!!

10:17 pm
December 16, 2010


Kimberly

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Hi there,

The first step is going to be in having her "see" her crib as her bed. Right now, she sees the car seat as her bed. It's very similar to when babies co-sleep and see mom and dad's bed as their bed instead of the crib.

A good place to start would be to help her bed smell like her. Place her crib sheet under her in her car seat for a few days so it smells like her when you put it in her crib. I'm not sure "where" she sleeps when she's in the car seat, but if it's not in her room, then another good thing would be to spend awake time in her room, playing and letting her get to know the space. Let her spend some time playing or laying in her crib.

Sometimes we also suggest that you place a blow up mattress or other temporary bed in her room where mom or dad can lay down while she's learning to fall asleep in her crib.

Mostly, it's going to be about helping her to find a way to be drowsy, then setting her in the crib and allowing her to fall asleep there. It may take some time but the key here is to be consistent. Since she is already familiar with sleeping in a crib a daycare, then I would imagine that this shouldn't be too big a of a transition for her at home but that it's more of a matter of helping her to see her crib as "her" bed.

Kimberly

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8:10 am
December 17, 2010


alj

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Thank you for the advice.  She does sleep in her room everynight… we put the car seat in her crib.  She does play in her crib too – watches her mobile and projector.  We also bought a sleep wedge, so she is a little elevated, thinking that it may be too hard of a transition to go to lying completely flat.  We will try the crib sheet idea this weekend!  Right now her way to get drowsy is her bedtime bottle, but when I put her down last night in her crib drowsy she screamed bloody murder.  We tried patting her tummy, and letting her cry out for almost an hour – but it only got her more and more upset.  Her crib sheet was wet with all the tears and drool!  Eventually we caved and picked her up, it took us at least 30 minutes to get her calmed down and then we put her into the car seat where she slept for 10 hrs.  I do not think that my husband and I have the temperament for cry it out!

3:35 pm
December 18, 2010


Syd

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Alj – Sorry to hear what you are going through.  I know that it is difficult.  My youngest daughter was having a really hard time putting herself to sleep in her crib.  Have you tried putting her in the crib when she is fully asleep?  I know that this is contrary to what you are supposed to do (putting them down drowsy but awake), but I found with my daughter that I was able to get her to sleep on my shoulder and put her down in her crib.  Then I put her down in her crib when she was drowsy and patted her back until she was almost asleep.  Now I can put her in her crib drowsy give her a kiss and leave.  It was kind of a long transition and I don't know if it is the best advice, but it might be an option if you don't want to go straight to CIO.


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