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So my lo is 4m today. I have tried to put him down sleepy but awake and it turns into a scream fest, the screaming is like nothing i have heard. He sounds like he is in pain=0  I have spoken to Nicole but i have not been successful with her adv because of the screaming!!!!! And i just cant afford another consult. So i figure i will try here. he just works himself into such a mess…I swear he cries because he crying! At some point i cant even calm him down=( And the problem on top of that is i live in a small apt with a ds in the next room=( Please help how can i get him to self sooth if its always a screaming disater! I keep his awake times short and look for sleep clues. He up at 630-7am naps at 8ish,10/11,230/3, and then i usually cant get him to  nap again. So i get him ready for bed and usually ends up in bed by 630/7pm…. i swaddle him, bath, lotion, white noise and nurse and rock him. I know he has to learn to self sooth and its what i trying to do but its not working!